and for us older guys who just finding out we have ADHD ,the deeper it gets cuz we have more to look back on and say oh thats why this played out the way it did ! shit if i only knew sooner hard not to kick rocks 1 finger hanging in pocket had to just get that out
I always say: almost everything happens for a reason. So there’s a reason why you now it now in stead of back then. Maybe you wouldn’t have been able to handle it at the time. Maybe something else was going on at the time that was more important. Think about it that way. And be thankful that you at least know. Better late then never
Kung fu Panda had a beautiful saying.
Yesterday is history
Tomorrow is a mystery
but Today is a gift
Its easy to look back and see more. You have gained knowledge, you haven’t had. Tomorrow you will have gained even more. And the day after. And the day after. That’s how learning works, we gain it piece by piece. Grief for millions and millions of what ifs is pointless. Saying yes for one thing, is saying no to millions and millions other things. All past choices you made, were made by a reason important to you. Its easy to forget that.