I got sucked down this particular rabbit hole via YouTube, as I waited for my fiancé to say she is on her way home from work, and I’d find my motivation to do the dishes.
In one of the videos Jessica mentioned, in passing, something about something her husband said on the way to his diagnosis. I can’t even begin to imagine what it would be like if my partner was also Adhd. She’s a saint for her patience with me. My adhd is more then enough to consistently battle with, I can’t imagine how exhausting it would be to compound that. Or, is it comforting to have a partner that knows exactly what you’re going through?
The countdown to my wedding just ticked under six months. Me and my fiancé both work a lovely 7pm-7am schedule which makes getting things done, on normal people time, so much more difficult. Have I mentioned that we’re getting married half way across the country, where we met, and closer to where we both grew up? We’re not great at the wedding planning stuff but all the pieces seem to be falling into place pretty well. Luckily, adhd has prepared me for this moment… I’ll getting around to sweating the little stuff… eventually.
Any advice for an adhd wedding? I’m sure I haven’t even begun to figure out exactly how the adhd will come into play on that day, and more importantly beyond that day.